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Anonymous asked: YEEAAAAA BUDDY.. did you go to TUMBLRMARKETING(.)COM yet? FREE STUFF YEEAAAAAA

tumblrmarketing.com? Nah, what’s that?

//goes to check it out

Oh, also, for all of you homestuckers out there go check out http://aiwstuck.tumblr.com/ for an Alice In Wonderland take on things~

vann-haal:

This is for all of my followers and, hell, if your friends need someone to talk to and won’t listen to you, here’s my information (read on to understand)

So, like, a lot of people have problems they need to talk about and they think no one is there to listen. I know when it was me a while back, the only reason I got help was because a teacher caught me before I committed suicide not because I was actually talking to someone.

And I’m not talking just depression. I understand things like ADHD, OCD, and physical ailments. I mean, I have mild OCD and some ADHD plus IBS and hypoglycemia. I completely understand what it feels like to go through something and feel like there’s no one there and if there IS someone there, they don’t really understand or ‘get’ you.

But the thing is, I do. And I’m sure there are a lot of people out there like me who understand what you’re going through. I just want everyone to have someone to talk to, someone who cares. I will listen and help you through whatever you’re going through. Just because no one was there for me, doesn’t mean there’s no one there for you.

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE SEND ME A FANMESSAGE ASKING FOR MY INFORMATION IF YOU’RE IN A TIGHT SPOT. I had to deal with perverts so I had to take the most personal information down, unfortunately.

You can find me on DeviantArt and most other websites via the username smjaygal and I’m on figment as Vann Haal if nothing else.

Like I know I’m really putting myself out there by trusting the internet to not take advantage of the information given. Hell, anyone can hack my pc or cell knowing this shit but like I think it’s more important to be available to whoever needs it. I want to make sure that before ANYONE crosses the line, there is at least one last person to talk to, someone who will listen to you no matter what.

I don’t care who you are. I don’t care what you’ve done and I don’t care what your gender or sexuality or age is; if you need to talk, you need to talk. Please don’t take advantage of this for fun, I’m doing this to help people out.

And don’t worry about waking me up/interrupting school or whatever. If I don’t reply immediately, I will EVENTUALLY. I am especially slow during the summer because I’m traveling around stateside with family with no real internet connection or cell phone service. (Japanese cell phone herp derp)

I’m never too busy to talk.

Had to change shit because of a couple of perverts. Sorry, guys.

vann-haal:

Ok, so as my followers know I’ve been busy exploring my sexuality and I believe I’ve come up with the proper term to describe myself: open

Like, it makes me uncomfortable to be like I am ‘blankety blank SEXUAL’ because to me that implies that the first thing the person is looking for revolves around SEX and hell, even panSEXUAL has to do with you don’t care about what’s between the person’s legs but it still implies a SEXUALITY to it, y’know? Even aSEXUAL revolves around SEXUALITY, right? Like yeah, sex may not be a thing to you but it’s still central and this is why I am now classifying myself simply as open.

When it comes to relationships, yeah, someone may be aesthetically pleasing but the sexual shit is literally the last thing I want even if I do get off on a lot of things and am, in essence, highly sexual due to my elevated libido but I am interested in that, just not right away. And then, I really really like guys but girls are also pretty and pleasing to look at and adorable and all that shit. Guys I find sexy, chicks I mostly think ‘I just want to take her into my arms and protect her’ kind of thing.

So, while I’ve only ever had boyfriends and I’ve only ever kissed guys, I am open to the thought of having a girlfriend or a trans-whatever the fuck. I also don’t care about race as I’m more about the personality as in pansexual. I don’t know if I could ever get off to the thought of a chick though or how I would deal with a girlfriend.

All I’m saying is that I’m open and I’m declaring that a ‘sexuality’ because I think it’s a thing that can happen and I’m not the only one that feels this way.

I decided to reblog this from my main as something to post. Seriously, where are all the questions?!

http://vann-haal.tumblr.com/post/23674906755/so-are-you-ready-to-forgive-me-yet-vanny

http://vann-haal.tumblr.com/post/23725507642/its-more-fun-if-you-guess-who-i-am-vanny-3-its-like

http://vann-haal.tumblr.com/post/23780452500/hmm-im-sorry-youre-wrong-hehe-you-probably-hold

http://vann-haal.tumblr.com/post/23787658821/heres-a-hint-weve-never-met-irl

Guys, I am seriously freaking out and crying internally because if I did it out loud, my mother would freak out. I’m seriously shaking right now. Is there anyone I can talk to?

Vann

Anonymous asked: Lol half of your followers are on tumblrdatinggame(.)com

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